The external trauma, sudden and involuntary disappearance of a loved one will disturb the intrapsychic functioning of a person. Anyone who is facing the death of a loved one will be affected with a sense of sadness that could be described as normal and healthy, unlike a depressive syndrome. The anxiety of losing a parent, child or wife, often plunges us into a state of anxiety. It’s the period of memories that hurt and agonize. It may last more or less, but the period is very difficult and tenuous.